I'm here to date, honest I am....

because everyone's so lovely on DA, especially those that join in conversations, I spend all my time chatting on msn or threads to friends I've made on them,( male and female) and forget to look/search for anyone else!!

Should I just carry on making friends and chatting and enjoying all the fun and let whatever's going to happen (if anything!) happen naturally as you would in fleshyland, or should I get down to the serious business of actively looking for a date?

What do you do?
What works for you?

Answers on a postcard please ;-) Shar xx

Hi there Shar,

Well, I would say carry on chatting and let things happen naturally, i.e. the fleshyland route (what a wonderful expression!) You can find out a lot about people before diving in and risking a possible disappointment if someone is not what they make themselves out to be. I'm on here to make friends as I'm not looking for a boyfriend but have had some lovely compliments and lots of messages. A few "me Tarzan, you Janes" of course but that's to be expected! Good luck - things happen when you least expect them to and who knows what's round the corner? LM x

Forget dating and get dunking :p

Mike (man got his hand around something warm and wet and isn't afraid to use it hat)

rofl...Mike well I hope its a digestive that you've got hold of!

Shar x

its like a digestive, only longer and filled with cream...! ;)

Mike (man in chocolate eclair hat)

Hatty - a brandy snap perchance?

back on thread - just go with the flow.

Hello Shar

I guess sweetie you have to find a happy medium but in the meantime keep searching for you never know your ideal man may appear on the threads one day....! O :)

I think most of us that are on here are here to date so your not alone!!!

Just checking Shar....I'm just about to start a thread, wondered if you had the same idea...but no!

Keith x

Shar

The best relationships are based on friendship so keep talking to your friends, make new ones and let fate lend a hand :o)


G x

some start with lust
And turn to dust

Sorry, wrong thread

Want to borrow my feather duster, Keith?

Oooer Keith...*blush* Dust *cough* LOL!!!

Ophelia - do you want to borrow my inhaler ?

Keith - behave yourself :-)

Shar - definately coming to the conclusion it's best to chat & make friends in the circles you enjoy. Hopefully Mr Right (as in your/my right!) will hopefully cross the path whilst we are out doing something we enjoy.

Sending you hugs
xx

Keith....me and you with the same idea??! ;-)

Yes thanks LM, Grace, Mike, Angel, Ophelia and Poppy think I knew the right answer really, don't think I could stop chatting to my friends anyway, I'd miss it too much :-) xx

Aawww shar, that almost bought a tear to my eye...though it may have been my end dropping off into my mug! dont you just hate it when that happens :p

Mike (man in half a biccie hat)

lol Mike Ive told you, you need a dunking mug!! much safer :-)

...that and an expert with a steady hand ;)

Mike (man in wobbly hat)

Hi Shar...now I've actually read your thread! Sorry, just skimmed it before...

Well, I used to run things more like a military campaign...I didn't take prisoners!

But now I'm much more relaxed about it, I chat, I joke, and get the same results...

Keith

Yes Keith I remember!! Think it's better to be relaxed, more fun!

And thank you for reading my thread, fancy skimming it before
I don't know what will I do with you Bro ;-0 xx