Erotical correctness

You can say he did'nt try lol .....

I find him very trying at times lol :(

Hey you lot! Erotical correctness! Fantasies! What about a quickie in the woods? Or adventurous suggestions for romantic scenarios? Why do people confuse a vivid sexual imagination with perving??? Personally I love erotic films, not porn particularly, that's GSCE sex, but those with a good story line.

As for role-play, I'd quite like to do the one where I don the Shakespearean gear, complete with codpiece, after which I am attended to by a nurse bringing the reviving brandy on a silver tray, expecting payment for her services!

Ladies you can't say that you don't fantasise, that every spark of romance has gone. I just don't believe it. If we don't know, we can't please. Go on, give your imagination a good see-ing too ;)

Yikes!! Mummy tell the scary man to stop... i'm too frightened to sleep now....

Hahaha! Perhaps it wasn't such a good idea mate, but I was getting bored witless. It all came from having nothing better to do in bed than read lol

Blimey WS did you really think we would entertain you and the rest of DA, come on get real! ;-O

No Shar, I once lived in hope that there was someone worth sharing life with, but you're right no fantasy, no dreams, no dating, no sex, no family, no children, no respect, no worth -there's not really much point in being a man in this wretched country! 50 years of wasted life! No point in having a brain, it's no use here, all they want is more money at the same time as more people. Just the same old duopoly of lies and failure, more tax, and death, at least the Germans dealt with the idiocy of biological determinism quickly! Death by neglect is the British way, they couldn't be bothered. Sex was just another one of some couple's mistakes I suppose, ah well at least there's no point in buying life asssurance haha

Not that's real, but it's a nightmare!

Excuse me WS But I think we all have Fantasy's, dreams dates etc etc we just didn't want to share them on here! As for the rest of it, well I didn't think thats what this thread was about :-O

I know I haven't been around much lately but it#s looking like this is becoming yet another site (among millions of others) where you cant say no, or admit you dont sleep around (like it's something shameful) without being called frigid, a freak or the many other names that you get called on other sites.

What's wrong with keeping your private life private is what I want to know. What business is it of anyone else's what we do or dont do and what we share or dont share. Being made to feel like a prude or like there's something wrong with you for not wanting to share your most private thoughts is the very reason I never went back to any of those other sites I joined when I joined this one.

I have to say this is the first time I've actually seen that kind of mentality in play here.

Ooh another long one!

*sits in the corner with Shar

I'll join you two in the corner, like I said earlier, no way would I share something so intimate, that would make it distasteful, not something that you had enjoyed with someone special. What happens between two people should be kept sacred between the two not divulged to all and sundry for someone to 'get off on'

What shall we call our corner? "The frigid old prudes" ?
Works for me :D

I must admit, I'm not usually easily shocked or surprised and getting this kind of thing by private message is common place, we've all had the messages form strangers just saying "What do you like" or "What's your favourite position" and then been slated for saying no thanks, but I never expected anyone would be slated for refusing to post it on an open forum for just anybody to see.

Hey Pure less of the old lol, think it could be 'The Respect' corner.

Have to admit I've not had any PM's from anyone that have been at all suggestive.

I haven't on here either, well not that I remember lol That's why I came back here to chat and not to the other places I joined.

Hey, this just points up what I was trying to get at. You seem to have confused the point of the thread - I knew it was risky to even so much as mention it - but I like taking risks because it tells me something that no amout of avoidance ever will.

What you're telling me is you don't want to talk about your sexual encounters with particular people. Fine. Do you think I want to know? Quite right, it's private. I wouldn't want to talk about what I got up to with individuals either - it's not fair on the other person for one thing, and I loathe gossip.

I don't get personal about sex in private messages with strangers - I thought that you at least knew me that well. For all I know they might be fifteen year old girls posed as someone else. Like you, I very good reason not to trust much of what goes on in this country!

Anyway, the reason that messaging people to try to date them was a waste of money is that the vast majority of people don't reply for whatever reason, not because of anything offensive in the messages. Perhaps if you've been getting lewd messages from total strangers, that might be the reason, which suggests that maybe I'm not so daft for taking this kind of risk, because if there are such people inhabiting the site, then I probably have been looking in the wrong place. I don't have a problem with sex, it's not dirty (unless you don't wash), and it's not shaemful (unless you're marreid or something). I'm an normal bloke looking for a normal unattached woman. I wouldn't expect her to have a problem with sex either, although I wouldn't try to force myself on anyone that does! I'm afraid I have no sympathy for the old game of blame the attractor or the attracted - I was the result remember? So I will reject either that try to deny truth, unless I want to reject myself!

No, what the point of the thread was meant to be about, was sexual fantasy. Fantasy happens with imaginary people, not real ones, and is the subject mostly of women's erotic fiction. I accept the point made by some that maybe I was going too far, but IN NO WAY was what I was trying to do comparable to perving. I am very open about such matters, that does NOT mean promiscuous. What you seem to be saying is that many of you have had unpleasant experiences with either men or sex or both. Well I'm sorry to hear that, but blocking it or pretending it doesn't exist doesn't fix the problem. Intimacy groups and things like that help to fix those kind of problems.

Oh, and sorry Shar, I stand corrected :)

Erotically :)

No what I was actually saying was that I, and Shar and Pepper, choose not to share our inner most thoughts with people on a public forum, or in private for that matter. Fantasies, whether carried out or not, are a very private thing and we chose not to post here and to keep them private. What I meant with my post was that I prefer to keep mine private and dont appreciate being looked down on for that any more than you think you deserve to be judged and looked down on for asking :p

Whatever your intention was there WILL be people reading this that will be "getting off" on it, very likely people who are not even members, these boards are open to millions of people on the internet and once they (some of them) think this is the type of site they can come to to get "fodder" like the millions of sites already being used for that that actually started out like this one it'll be a free for all like they are.

Ooh I could be over reacting *adds a pinch of salt*

It's very hard to find a site like this that has been kept clean and relatively safe :/

And what happened to DB?

PI I'm okay with everythnig you say. If you think that there are people 'getting off' on it though, I don't know. Do you mean that if you mentioned some kinky piece of prose, that would have people having sex with their computers or something. they must be text-mad!

As for DB, perhaps you can help me out here. He has assumed the status of God, since I blocked him ages ago, and if he was to directly respond to anything I did I would be greeted by 'You have blocked the author of this message'. As if I'm a kind of atheist! God, sorry I mean DB, could be kind, or he could be hurling expletives at me, I wouldn't know! I could only receive slightest His message through His followers. I have some difficulty with the concept of God being an atheist, but I'm happy to play in the interests of reconcliation... I think the point has duly been made, and I'm not one to hold grudges. And sorry PI if it's a bit long - whoops that wasn't erotically correct!

I have no idea what you're talking about as far as DB goes, except the bit about blocking him, I just hadn't seen him around in ages and wondered where he'd got to.

Yes there are lots of sick people out there who get off on that kind of thing, sad but true, that's why I try not to get too smutty with my sense of humour :p

Anyway I'm back off to my seclusion.