Erotical correctness

Afraid i will join the others in the corner.
No way am i gonna share my fantasies-real or imaginary on here.

There is a time and a place for them,here is not it,they are going to stay between me and whoever i spend my life with.

LL x

Hi Pure...don't stay in seclusion for too long, miss you

(hugs) :-) xx

WS you replied to FB that it all came from being bored witless and having nothing better to do in bed then read, may I suggest you get yourself something more erotic to read to get off on rather then a who dunnit instead of wanting to know off us ladies on DA who does what where and how and when.....We do not wish to comply with your perverted requests on our fantasies, fantasies are fantasies and remain private thoughts to whoever they belong....

what does your remark regarding 'the Germans' and 'biological determinism' mean? what are you talking about western?

Well.... All I can say is, that should the special person enter my life they would soon find out eventually.....then again I think I would have to feel comfortable to reveal any of my deepest thoughts of sexuality and fantasies!!!! That is all I am prepared to say on this thread topic!!!! This lady never reveals all in public!!!! LOL! O xx

PI in Britain I think erotical correctness is to be a monk or nun. If I had actually taken vows I don't think I would have found life here so disappointing, because I wouldn't have bothered to try, and I would have had company. Wouldn't be too comfortable with everyone being the same sex though. There's just no-body to do anything with anymore, now most of you have children that's the main problem. Is life just grim endurance to the end? In which case I would say to all you pairs of bonkers - for God's sake spare the children!

The wages of sin are death so they say, fine, but so are the wages of celibacy. A little life in between birth and death might have have at least made life on a small island a little bit more interesting!

Just might add this one thing FANTASIES are just that and they are in the mind...once you start to act those out...then problems may arise....Some like myself prefer to keep some of my thoughts and opinions such as this topic to ones self...only to be shared with someone you love and can trust wholeheartedly..I have yet to meet that person! This thread is not a place for revealing to all and sundry!

Well WS Why are you still here then if you have found life so disappointing...are you not yourself looking for someone that can come up to your expectations and fulfill your needs? YOu know Life is what you make it....we are all captains of our own ships and take responsibility of our own lives!

after reading this thread, from another blokes thinking, I'm quite surprise to have read all that I have from you WS. I too would not talk about my opinions or fantasies, what I did or not do the other night. Yes Ophelia I must agree with you & others sitting in the corner lol.As to fantasies alone if you rein act your fantasies then how can they be just thoughts anymore if you have given them out. My innermost is mine until some person ( lady ) gets into my innermost heart to find them, then I share, so then what a lovely truthful thought that will/ would be.
On lighter note WS you mention about insurance life policy, really there is no such thing, it's name has changed to hide the meaning as like your subject. Life insurance is a death insurance really, but truthfully who would buy an insurance policy that states that, hence Life insurance.
Probably wont get read now as it is late going out but we'll see

Well I shall respond niterider....I see that you agree with most of us on the value of what should be kept private and not freely given to all and sundry!!! Life Insurance...what the heck has that do to with this topic??? The mind boggles!!!

Because Ophelia, there's never a suicide bomber around to hug when you need one! I've given up. I just don't have any faith any more. I've had too much abuse. All I had was love, a good brain, and a desire to make things better. I really don't believe anyone is capable of dating anymore. I never had a lot of luck with it, because it wasn't really my style for meeting people - it happened naturally if you know what I mean.
It's funny that everyone should be so up in arms about China's human right abuses - they should be looking nearer to home. My MP couldn't even be bothered to turn up to give me a hearing. Sorry I've got nothing to offer any more - love doesn't stand a chance in this country. That's how bad it's got - that no matter who the woman is I wouldn't want to have a child by her, because it would have to grow up in this wretched country. I'm ashamed to be British.
Life insurance I might have taken it out if I believed there was anyone worth it. If after twenty years I'm still here on my own after physical abuse under the NHS in Norfolk, verbal and physical abuse from a Norfolk schoolchild, and written abuse from Norfolk police, and no-one bothers to do anything about it, I begin to think that in death there would at least be some dignity. Fine I'm not worth it. And we're all equal.

As a member of the male sex, count me in your corner, peoples fantasies are that, private!
On a lighter note, there is no such thing as life insurance, there is life assurance. You cannot insure against a cetainty.

Okay, before I bow out for good, may I say that I hear the message loud and clear, and I respect that.

A lot of people didn't hear what I was saying though, so I'll say that loud and clear. I am extremely isolated, and have been denied my livelihood in which I interacted responsibly with hundreds of people daily, due to the disgraceful behaviour of certain public servants to cling onto their salaries in Norfolk. First of all they nearly killed me when I lived in Avon to try and make a nice little living. It failed, thanks to the work of good people in Suffolk, but it did cost me ten years of career. If that wasn't enough when I was living in Cambridgeshire, they wrecked my livelihood when I was daft enough to set foot in one of their schools. Five years on, they decided to use the police to circulate libellous information about me. Throughout I've been paying the wages of these vermin whilst working to overcome them. The only reason they could get away with it is because no-one has wanted to live in partnership with an injured guy with a scarred lip since my partner died, and I've had to put an enormous amount of effort into picking up the pieces and curing the damage they inflicted. Unfortunately my mother lives there.

The result is that for twenty years now I've been forced to live alone, even though I've committed no crime. When I've been able to earn enough money to get away, the possibility of relationship was there, and sometimes I got lucky. All those who denied the truth or tried to make up stories, you will reap exactly what you have sown. All of you who tried to get through the shinanigans to try to find love, you will reap exactly what you have sown.

I'm not looking for sympathy it sucks. I don't care what you think of me, I did when I thought that this site was about dating. If you understand me, you will know what I mean. I apologise to those of a sensitive disposition, I had no intent to offend. Quite frankly, I don't have any dreams any more. Except perhaps being alive and happy on the opposite side of the world to Norfolk.

WS, We hear what you are saying but this is NOT what you started originally.!! What has all this you are telling us got to do with FANTASIES? Your original posting was asking us what our fantasies are, so what you are now saying is nothing really to do with anything but your fantasies of taking on the ones who you have had misfortunes with..!!
I know you are not looking for sympathies as you say it sucks, but a lot of things in life sucks and most of us have been through many misfortunes but we dust ourselves down, pick ourselves up and carry on with life. Life is what you make of it and feeling sorry for yourself is NOT going to get what you are looking for. So come on hun, get a grip, tomorrows another day.

Hi Jue, not a lot is probably the answer to that. I tend to displace things to take the pressure off like humour when people are at loggerheads, or in this case sex (good) because of politics (bad). Both relate to deprivation, and deprivation is bad for health - it saps the will. Too many of us are powerless, then it becomes easier to just resist what you don't want, rather than strive for what you do want. I like it even less when the deprivors are my inferiors but just rely on safety in numbers, for that is how they end up making me inferior, I lose the will to want to help people if there's no justice, and those in charge are corrupt.

I guess I've got a bit of a problem with most of you being mothers too, because you're probably right, the fantasy thing is not really very appropriate. But then I didn't going looking for mothers. I was looking for someone single and free to go out with, hence dating. Whether its any easier being a single housebound mother or a single housebound man when it comes to emotional fulfillment I wouldn't know. I wouldn't really want either.

I'm afraid every day is much the same at the moment - I can understand why there were once 3million housewives hooked on valium. It's something I wouldn't condemn anyone to. Man needs to achieve, and to be able to carry on with life - that's why I disgrace Norfolk.

WS I don't want to seem insensitive .. however I joined this site for a bit of light-hearted banter and friendship, sometimes there is a time and a place for some conversations...

You have BIG issues and I hope in time you learn to except them.

Good luck

MM :-)

WS you really shouldnt displace things to take the pressure off anything. You need to put everything into perspective and deal with them individually.
I would not say that deprivation is bad for your health as my health is very good at the moment and believe you me Im suffering from deprivity but it dont affect my willingness by a long shot. NEVER lose the will to help others if you feel youve been ill justiced, its not those who are less fortunate that should suffer due to your ill feelings with the law.Doing a good deed can make you feel good and feel you have a sense of worth.
Again not looking for mothers has nothing to do with fantasies surely, why would it? Being a single housebound mother can bring many joys and bonding, being a single housebound man can bring misery and unhappiness to some but not all, therefore you do something about it and get out and about. If you feel so deprived there are many single clubs you can join, its as I said before, lifes for living so get out and live it. If you need help making that move then phone the Samaritans, chat with them and confess all, thats what they are trained to do as you are coming across as very depressed with your life.
As for 3 million women on Valium there are more reasons as to why they were prescribed them in the first place other than for being deprived or emotionally unfulfilled.
If you feel that man needs to achieve then man should go and achieve, dont disgrace all of Norfolk, Im sure its only a minority you have issues with. Leave them behind and get a life hun. You will feel so much happier and fulfilled yourself. :o)

My fantasy involved WS, some whipped cream, and the back seat of a bus.

Unfortunately, it was Gorleston's "Flying Banana" bus service, so I guess there's not much chance of making it a reality :o/

Hey WS - I could make use of a couple of ninja-assassins at the minute. Could you let me know which department of Great Yarmouth's council hired them out for the Avon "hit"?

Seriously though - I'm having to read between the lines of what you're saying, as I'm sure many others are, because your style of writing is very....ummm...."freestyle".

I'm sure you're aware that reading between the lines - especially with emotive text - is open to all kinds of misunderstandings. One line in your earlier posts jumps to mind, but I'd rather not draw attention to it. I'm sure that the same thought has passed through several people's minds, and it may be worth your time to reread your posts from an outsider's perspective - maybe even clear up any possible misunderstanding.

The attitude that comes across in your text seems to be "the world is against me" and "faceless bureaucrats have ground me to nothing", which goes against your claims to be cheerful and easy-going. I think it's the dichotomy of the two which is causing people to respond badly to you - not just here, but probably in the real world too.

Got to dash away now - my bath's getting a bit full. I'm off to have a soak, and try to find a way of making Warwickshire as exciting as Norfolk, with it's ninja's and flying banana's (honestly - some counties have it easy!)

WS, Don't give up please.
I perhaps don't quite know what you are going through after 20 years alone, but I can perhaps warrant a guess. My late wife died five years ago, and I have struggled to make sense of it all. If it wasn't for my daughter I would have given the battle up long ago, so fair dos, you are still going after 20 years, so you are strong. Go with it. I feel you are very angry, and bear the world a grudge, and I hazard a guess, scaring the ladies away. I may be a wee be insensitive, but it is time to move on, and lay the past to rest, and be at peace with yourself, love yourself, and the rest will follow.

Bern

Nice words Bern, agree with you about moving on, sometimes hard to do, you are lucky that you have your daughter, it's so much easier when you have children to help you on your way, I belive that WS doesn't have any children, life is sometimes hard when you have no one else to care for. Hope all is going well for you, it must be hard at times looking after a teenage daughter.