Erotical correctness

Pepper,

Thanks for your kind words. It has been tough, but brilliant at the same time. It's not a path I would have chose, but not given the choice, I count myself lucky.
Now all I need is someone to share my life with, as I am geeting to be a *grumpy old man* as quoted by my 13 yo ;¬) LoL

Bx

WS the time has come to move on sweetie..put all your issues which to others may seem like baggage..if you really want help to overcome them there are places you can go for that professional help..But at the end of the day you are the one that has to make changes and come to terms with the issues and problems that you have faced for many years...I actually do understand where you are coming from...But the written word can be misconstrued..you started off great until you actually invited others to bring forth their fantasies..It is the way you have put that...then you go off the track completely onto something else...Is the Eroticism just a platform to bring out your frustration and psychological issues that you perceive to have and think others don't care about! Also I detect some anger there...well, its fine to be angry..in the right context when confronting your demons and learn to accept the things that have past you cant change your past but you can determine your future in a lot of ways...! I say the same as Muppet don't give up, for if nothing else you will have perhaps forged some friendships on here... However, in order to engage in any relationship you have to let go of your past..and come to terms that life has not been kind to you! If you don't love yourself how can you expect others to love you! Basically I don't think you are a bad guy...perhaps your own expectations of what you think this site has to offer and what you require have been set too high!!! Nobody is perfect and sometimes we have to make compromises..yours is to let go of your anger and the past and what you perceive about people and how the world sees you! O x

WS - There is a whole wide world out there, you say you have no ties so why not go and explore it, who knows where you might end up and who knows who with.
rocks

Well, its another day , and for the moment its blown over. It was risky doing what I did. I did say on my profile that I'm a passionate guy, when death is no longer any threat it is sometimes necessary to just go through these things to remove the pus of the past. I'm not normally so extreme, but occasionally it surfaces. I can laugh at myself again, that negative stuff caused me to judge my MP for not turning up when it was me that turned up a day earlier. I just want it all to end as quickly as possible. Thanks for your views and encouragement.

Peppercorn - astute as always you pointed out that I haven't got any children, and that is the root of the matter.
Bern - it just goes to show that you that you don't know anything about a person until you listen. Until I read your post, I thought 'Who's this guy calling himself a Muppet with a tomato for a head?' I'm sorry to learn of your loss mate, what you have over me is that I lost my partner without having children. You have a visible reminder of all the beauty and love that you had, new hope every day. Never let that die.
WD40 - cheers, although I'll give the whipped cream a miss lol
Both your statements are true. I am fundamentally a cheerful easy-going guy AND faceless bureaucrats did grind me to nothing. The world isn't against me, not sure it's for me either, maybe before I die I'll find someone to spend the rest of my days with, and I'll know the answer. Can't help with ninjas from Yarmouth though - I believe faceless bureacrats have decided to flood the whole area!
Jue - Thanks for your concern fellow Taurean, you probably know what makes me tick! Why say deprivation is bad for you, though? Or do you mean sex? I meant social deprivation, Being with people always gives me a lift, being left out is always a downer.
Ophelia - finally an explanation as to why this was so risky and why it exploded in the manner it did. Eroticism is a private matter - to be a good thing it happens between two consenting adults. Abuse from professionals is also a private matter - if they can keep it that way. It does not happen between two consenting adults, it happens when individuals working within large organisations exert their will over vulnerable individuals. I don't want to say any more than that, as I needed to trust enough to release the hurt in order to start to deal with it, otherwise it poisons normal relationships.

Trust is something that is important to me, and whilst I understand that many women are subjected to abusive men, some are also the perpetrators of it, so it's important to remain objective! Not always easy though. Here endeth the heavy stuff. Back to casual text for a while! :)

WS, I hope your mood is lighter today, you had me worried...bring on the casual text!

Keith

Hi WS, Glad to see you are in a better mood today.

Must point out though that I did not say deprivation was bad for you, it was you who said that both sex and politics relate to deprivation if you read back hun.

Yes being a fellow Taurean I can relate to what makes you tick :o)

All the best WS

xx

Oh Jue, thank you. :)

What a difference a day makes! lol. I was really going through it because that how it was for me then - I felt stuck because of politics and sexually deprived. I had an appointment to see my MP and I didn't think he turned up, and was really upset and angry. Before ringing up the office the next day, I looked in my diary and realised why. The person that organised it had said Friday 17th!

A simple misunderstanding, which was confirmed by everyone there. Suffice to say that he really listened, and has made a practical offer of help. While I was waiting I had a lovely chat with a lebanese woman while I was waiting, she woke me up to the fact that in the real world we've all got trials to go through, and it's how you deal with them that counts.

And the day just got better and better. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that DA might just work after all ;)

WS xx

Well I am pleased that things are working ok for you now WS and that you are feeling that much better about yourself...Yes each day presents its own trials and tribulations...but another day may be totally different...We all may be guilty of misunderstanding sometimes...its ok nobody is perfect..I hope all works out for you on DA! O :) xx

Hi WS

Lovely to hear you speaking with such optimistic views now and hearing a happier sound in your messages.

Keep smiling and making the most of each new day....xx

WS glad to hear you're cheery again. Thanks for pointing the tomato out. Note, to me, check yhe flash works LoL

Hahahaha! That's not erotically correct lol. Not after all that stuff about perving. AND, I'll have you know, this thread had stopped quietly at 69 until you posted!

Yes, very happy mate. And after what you've shared, I truly hope you find this site works for you, even if it might take longer than you at first thought. Just consider it foreplay!

WS