 | I can relate to this discussion as I was recently dating a lass for 2 months whom i met on a site called gumtree. I was just starting I hoped to make the fun, playful and clearly romantic friendship, into a physical level, but she gave me this frequent line I've heard from women viz. "I'm not looking for anything serious'' Like others I've tried to date before, I got dumped but told how special I was and how she genuinely wanted us to continue seeing each other, but just as friends. Yes, I have been down this route oen too many times now.
Well, the reason why I mention my own scenario is that had I seen her match.com profile, I'd have never contacted her as she used some line about 'not looking for anything serious' ( she's a young lass of 27, by the way). Now if a woman's profile suggests in any way that she's never gonna be interested in strating a family in the future, or that she's just looking for a casual relationship, then I immediately move on to visit the next profile. As I do wnat to meet someone, have kids (eventually) and do very much want to date a woman for the express purpose of hopefully finding a girlfriend and finding a compatible long term partner.
In my case, this lass had seen my profile which to be frank, clearly communicates the above points I've just raised both by suggestion and in words. Neverthelss, she got in touch with me, said she liked the fact that I had said i want to meet someone but to take it slowly and befriend them first. Then when 2 months later, it was obvious that kissing would progress, that's when she came out with this line about not wanting anything serious. I later saw her profile and noticed her comment there on it too.
Well, I wish these 'nothing serious' people could get out of our way and just either head over to those swingers sites or grow up and figure out what they wnat before contacting thos eof us, who do know what we want.
Can anyone else relate to this quandary?!
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