I've realised it's my own fault

I hope you have a good time before it comes to that!
I wasn't being flippant...just how much time do you have to get the i 's dotted and the t's crossed ?
I suppose I mean that at some point you have to cast indecision aside and go for it.

Keith

Keith...put the bottle of wine away dwahling :o)

Discovery Channel cmdr - fantastic line!

Lemonadesparkle

Most of the men I've been on dates with were 'dull duds' I wasn't just one !!!

We take risks every day in life some little some big so dating is no different we sometimes take a risk it may work it may not that is life.

cmdr....I don't like 'bad boys' and certainly wouldn't want a relationship with one....but thats just it....they don't want a relationship anyway...so I am safe from being hurt!

Think that makes sense!!!! ;-)

Wise1 - wise words indeed :o)

We can't wrap up in cottonwool There are no guarantees you won't get hurt but if don't take a chance now again you might miss what you are looking for.

Mousebat did any of them ask you out on a second date?

Shar, so you don't want a "Bad Boy" and they don't want a relationship so you see them as a safer option.

It seems to me that you are dancing around your issue, something in your past that hurt you. Please deal with your past, talk to someone, well you are kind of on here.. What I am suggesting is that going for a "Bad Boy" for the reasons you have given is pointless.

It's like someone saying that tomorrow they will give up smoking and we all know tomorrow never comes. Going through the motions of dating but all the time kidding yourself as you know the "Bad Boy" is not for you anyhow so doomed to fail.

Life is about taking chances and sometimes you have to go for it, not knowing the outcome.

Drop your shields and take a risk. Allow someone to get close to you. That is the only way you are going to find true satisfaction.

IMHO

Grace...you've known me all this time....wine is for women who may not drop by...beer is my drink.

Slurp.

wise1

In answer to your question, did any ask me out on a second date?
Yes they did.

Keith - care to share your bottle of Bud? ;o)

G x

Also....I'm quite happy to go on a date with someone who attracts my interest, so far that hasn't happened here, at least not with the men I've had contact with by pm.

But on the flip side I'm not to everyone's taste either!!!

That's life - you carry on.

I've offered to share with you before, but you never honoured my offer!

K x

Mousebat the only trouble with this site (unfortunately) is that because it has a small membership compared to others, it tends to be the same people that are on here and the chances of meeting someone new/who you connect with can be limited. Bearing that in mind, whether admin like it or not...it's worth trying other sites too...which is what I've done. I have to admit that much as this site has been my favourite, the 2 relationships I've had since my marriage broke up, have been with men who I've met via another site. I've just started dating someone else, again from another site...so it might be worth considering that too?

G x

Share what exactly Keith? I must've missed that message lol x

Hey! Hope it works out for you Grace

x

Grace
I put myself about too, but apart from Dateline yonks ago, the women I've met have been through this site.

Small enough to be intimate (that's me, and DA!)

Keith

Ps what didn't I offer to share?

LS

Believe me, I've been on several sites!! I'm no novice.

You're right this site does have a small membership!

I know I'm way too picky, but that's me. I don't want to date just for the sake of it.