have you ever

hello you good people out there
just wondering anyone out there thats been in some kind of relationship
and thought they meant more to their partners only to be left feeling you were no more than bed buddies, or they only see you as a good friend .
this is aimed at men and women .

or did you feel they was after your money .

Hi Tracey,

Oh don't get me started! lol

x

Ummm...yes Tracey....last time...and the time before that...oh...and the time before that :0(

not mant times then lol
hello you two

just my entire recent dating history tracy...but I'm not bitter ..(men..grrrr...spit) ;0)

i know wat you mean , i have had a good wkend and only to come home feelin like a lost coarse

There IS something to be said for spelling, Tracey.
Do you mean you were more refined after the weekend, or that someone had given up on you or you'd given up on them?


Keith x

well lets just say i had a good weekend only to come away as friends , which i can not be under the way we both feel for each other

now keith if you are confused by this , how do you think i am lol

Evening all...oh yea happened to me too,they spout flowery words then decide to move on cos they really didn't want a relationship at all...

Still at least they weren't after my money!! cos i aint got any : P

LL x x

You do not seem to enjoy the meets you have had so far, Mysti. Perhaps it would be wiser of you to check them out before-hand.

I too, have experienced the odd date that made me feel, " Used " . It,s part and parcel of the game of dating. I,m sure we have all done it at sometime.

Perhaps Tracy will learn the art?

Lets hope so! Because not all men are the same.

LOL

Ted!

what the point in them being on a dating site saying they want long term then a year or more say they aint looking but still seeks their victim .

as for money well it cost me a bloody pkt to get there , then i was that annouyed i hit a rock and puntured my tyre which then cost me another 100 pounds , so in all it was to be my worst ever weekend away lol

yes reality I checked them first...I have 4 children I'm not silly...but sometimes all the checks in the world are not enough....players can be ruthless in that they say all the right things to begin with and lull you into a false sense of security. And for the record I've only been out with one guy from here......and one from another site......and one from fleshyland.......don't want peeps thinkin I'm some kind of Messalina lol . :0)

Hi everyone :o)

Yes know what you mean Tracey and I bet he never offered to pay half towards it did he? :o/

Well you have the meet to look forward to and thats going to be a great party so you just keep smiling hun :o)

Jue xx

well no you right he never , but i didnt, expect him to anyway , but if i had known he wanted just friendship i would not of bothered going there again , still like you said i have the meet to look forward to and all is booked lol .

mind you glad it was only my tyres that got damaged ,

and any man wanting to meet me will have to travel to me first lol.

Hello again Tracey,

I think we can work out who you're talking about, and as I said before I'm not going to presume to make judgements on him or your relationship.

All I would say is this. I knew someone for six years. It was very on & off during that time. He had his reasons for this and I believed them at the time - always thinking I was special to him and that in time he would come around and we would be together for ever. I was so besotted with him I refused to listen to my friends, convinced they didn't understand. To cut a long story short, I eventually saw the light and realised exactly how badly he was treating me. Suffice to say I closed that door and he is history! I have never ever regretted that decision.

Listen to that inner voice of yours.

Take care hon

x

lets just say i listened to my heart and got it wrong

Hi Chris

Wise words hun...I had exactly the same and more for 3yrs...lesson to learn here is "Don't let your heart rule your head" although to most it is easily said than done. :o/

Jue xx

hi jue

thats very true .
we listen to them play their tune on our heart and bang they got ya right where they want ya.
but they dont bother catchin you when you fall

well maybe by nov i will be ready to let someone else in

True Tracey and the same goes for the men too who have had this done to them it happens to both sexes and to the best of us.

Time heals and if given the time we come out of it feeling ready to go forward. Its never wise to go chasing after a doomed relationship as it only ends in more hurt. Remember each minute of each day you feel hurt sad and miserable is a minute lost of the time we are here and you cannot get that back. So make the most of it and be happy! Again easier said than done but worth it in the long run.

xx

well i dont hold it against him . as i am sure he is feeling low at times as well .

thanks ted its nice that a man has joined in convos , well on ward and up wards . i always bounce back its part of who i am . happy lady