have you ever

Dont be in a rush to move on, just give yourself time to adapt, still make friends with others, if their decent people they will give you time, happy distractions help, take the flattery and stay true, you sound a lovely person.

Pol x

well i may give costa a try tomorrow as going to town will have coffee and poeple watch haha

his the man who done this to you on this site ?.

unfortunately no,
trust me, it would be on topic, he was off match.com,you take care, xx

hi pol, i wouldnt waste money on solicitors fees when you can achieve the outcome you want for a fraction of the cost.

if youre definite that you agreed a sale figure & terms eg you were selling the car at £3000 & he was to settle within 4 weeks or by so & so date ie youre sure he understood that you sold him the vehicle, then i would sue him through the small claims court (i think the max for claims is now £5,000). you can get the claims form from your local small claims court. if you find this a bit daunting a really good idea before you start any proceedings may be to to invest in joining Which Legal HelpLine - it costs £12.75 for 6 months unlimited use on small claims or any other legal matters and they will take you through each step.

dont forget to write to him formally first confirming your intention, after all it may have just slipped his mind.

you can also charge interest on the amount outstanding plus your costs so you should be quids in - this, added to the delight of seeing him squiggle, squirm and squelch his way through the mire of all of this will probably help you get over your broken heart very quickly indeed.

then all you have to do is make a golden rule to get the money up front & in cash in future.

hiya sarabee

good job we have someone like you with brains .
hope pol gets her money back .

sarabee, thank you x
I am writing the letter, it will be posted through his door tonight, as I have a text clarifying he knows what he had to pay and by when, glad I kept the 2 bounced cheques too!
Enjoy your coffee Tracey

great pol. when you write the letter apply the KISS principle & avoid any emotional chit chat eg ps i miss you terribly and still love everything about you, well everything except the way you licked your belly fluff out of your navel .........

No worries along those lines, he was good, but not that good, no, my missing him days were long gone, I will end the letter, with kind regards.

Pol

That's it, I'm off to a nunnery !!!

mouse that cracked me up lol.

pol keep a copy of the letter you are sending him mind

yes because tracey intends on using it to reclaim petrol expenses from the fella she met.

sorry tracey, would you like to borrow some superglue.

sarabee
dont forget tyres as well lol.

mouse i think my ass be glued already to this chair haha

Tracey the word is bottom on this site lol

oh sorry sir mike lol .

Mike is a bottom!

:):)

xx

He sent me a pic of himself Mousey...ya not wrong :0)

A very pert botty I will have you know!!

it was a pic of his face mouse....oh dear :-0