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» MeltyPureVolupPepJueWD40 Male 09-Oct-2008 22:52 ·  Reply
It's finally happened - I need to get a housemate so that I can cover the bills, and hopefully eat during winter.

Has anyone had or been a lodger before? What problems do I need to be aware of?

Practical advice greatly appreciated :o)
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charlotte1962
»» charlotte1962 Female 09-Oct-2008 23:11 ·  Reply
can't give any sensible advice i'm afraid :/ but just remember, my last lodger i could never damn well get rid of and now i'm his slave in mind, body and soul. let that be a cautionary tale to you.

hey, i've got a great idea. we probably won't be able to eat this winter (unless the chickens continue to lay) and we have a spare bedroom and! and! you'd only be 45 mins from essex. result :) £50 a week and some gardening?

hope someone comes up with something sensible :/
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ChilledChicken
»» ChilledChicken Female 09-Oct-2008 23:13 ·  Reply
Hi WD,

Make sure you have a proper tenancy agreement and decide whether they have the run of your house or not, then plan from there.
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»»» MeltyPureVolupPepJueWD40 Male 09-Oct-2008 23:21 ·  Reply
Cheers CC! :o)

Charlotte - won't fif_la_catpoo mind sleeping in the spare room?
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charlotte1962
»»»» charlotte1962 Female 09-Oct-2008 23:23 ·  Reply
now you're confusing me. fifi in the spare room? i thought i'd be in the spare room.
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charlotte1962
»»»»» charlotte1962 Female 09-Oct-2008 23:51 ·  Reply
uh-oh. i just re-read that :/ i meant you and fi in the main bedroom and me in the spare room, alone, by myself, singly, etc, lol.

i just spoiled my own (poor) joke :)
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»»»»»» PureAngel Female 09-Oct-2008 23:55 ·  Reply
There's no joke like a poor joke!

See WD I told you it's happen! Just what Charlie said! :o
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charlotte1962
»»»»»»» charlotte1962 Female 10-Oct-2008 00:26 ·  Reply
i have no idea what you two are talking about but i have a feeling i'm not meant to :) so i'm off to join la la in la la land. oh incidentally, i still have the tenancy agreement from the flat, could let you have that (for a small fee). it'd be way more than you needed but you could pick out the most relevant/necessary bits.

nite.
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 01:12 ·  Reply
I was talking about what you said about getting a lodger and falling in love with them! lol

You lost me on the other stuff though!
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Jedster
»»»»»»»» Jedster Male 10-Oct-2008 01:21 ·  Reply
The only lodger I've ever had was a 6'5" New Zealander who smelled strongly of garlic all the time. I'm sure there's a message in there somewhere :o\

Contracts are the way forward, everyone knows the rules then (if you decide you need one let me know, I reckon I can undercut charlotte..)
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 12:01 ·  Reply
Undercut Charlie?
Come on then.Gissa price! Is it likely to be something he has to pay or something I'd have to pay? ;)

You never can tell with Charlie...



That's a total fib! We all know it'd be a price I'd pay ;)

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charlotte1962
»»»»»»»» charlotte1962 Female 10-Oct-2008 12:22 ·  Reply
i was actually going to offer a beautifully crafted, exquisitely worded, typed with my own fair hands, tenancy agreement FOC. but seeing as you have an offer of a doubtless rank bit of paper, that's covered in beer stains and bits of kebab and has resided in the arse crack of stinking new zealander, i'd advise you go for that one. it would definitely put off prospective female tenants. problem sorted.
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 12:24 ·  Reply
Good point!

Although I was kinda looking forward to paying you *pout*

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charlotte1962
»»»»»»»» charlotte1962 Female 10-Oct-2008 12:30 ·  Reply
you are such a fibber, as, i believe, has already been pointed out by shar :)

i trust you're going to help vet prospective tenants? it would only be right.
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 12:33 ·  Reply
Nope, it's nothing to do with me, so long as he gets on with whoever it is I'm not overly bothered...






Well so long as he has a HUGE combination lock on his room that only I have the number for. Dont want him getting out and into any mischief ;) *snicker*
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charlotte1962
»»»»»»»» charlotte1962 Female 10-Oct-2008 12:52 ·  Reply
you have such a generous spirit. me, i'd be vetting them at the corner of the street, aided by the bigggst thing in your new socket set, which says nothing about the 'landlord' but everything about my pathetic insecurites :) anyhow, just think, you may soon have *two* men to enterain you.
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 13:01 ·  Reply
I'm out for dinner with two of my favourites tomorrow funnily enough! Ooh I wonder how it'd work if they lived together...

I'm not sure I could cope with any more. My friends husband works away during the week and gave her the hump last week by coming home 2 days early because it was my birthday lol
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BIGI
»»»»»»»» BIGI Male 10-Oct-2008 13:34 ·  Reply
Hya WD40, if I was you I would be looking for nice legs and a decent pair of knockers, don't let anything else cloud your judgement.
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»»»»»»»» PureAngel Female 10-Oct-2008 14:17 ·  Reply
Oi Ian!
Watch it! That's my boyfriend ya know! :p

Anyway..


If he's clearing off with some nice knockers and legs...


What you doing next weekend? ;)

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BIGI
»»»»»»»» BIGI Male 10-Oct-2008 16:25 ·  Reply
Whoops ! Sorry P, I'm sure he wouldn't have his head turned simply by legs and boobs, he would't be that shallow he he.

Unfortunately i seem to be free most bloody weekends these days, most excitement i get is the gym and the golf club, how exciting is that eh ?

Think i might try one of those speed dating thingys, there must be someone out there !
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